Episode 02
Why life after cancer can feel harder than treatment
When cancer treatment ends, it can feel like things are meant to get easier. For many people, this is when new challenges begin, and things can feel harder than the treatment itself.
In this episode, Steph sits down with Alison Carter, a member of the Life after Cancer community, to talk about what life after cancer treatment really felt like for her. Alison was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2017. She is now eight years after treatment, and reflects on the part that often catches people off guard - the emotional and mental recovery that begins once treatment has finished.
She speaks openly about going back to work too soon, living with brain fog and cognitive changes, and the anxiety that can show up in everyday moments.
Alison also shares what helped her most during this time, including the importance of connection with people who understand what this stage really feels like.
This is a conversation about the part of recovery that isn’t always visible and why life after cancer can feel more overwhelming than expected.
This conversation also explores:
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going back to work after cancer and the pressure to feel “back to normal”
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chemo brain, memory changes and loss of confidence
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anxiety after cancer treatment and what helps in the moment
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menopause and ongoing treatment side effects
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body image and the small ways we try to regain a sense of control
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the quiet process of working out who you are now
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If you’re navigating life after cancer treatment, or supporting someone who is, you’re not alone in this.
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Useful links
TED talk - The best gift I ever survived - Stacey Kramer
Identity workshop - Life after Cancer
Chemo brain resources - Life after Cancer
Return to work resources - Macmillan
Rebuilding body confidence - Life after Cancer
Coaching programme - Life after Cancer
Peer support groups - Life after Cancer
Disclaimer
The information shared in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. If you have any concerns about your health or notice any new or worsening symptoms, please contact your GP or your medical team.
Statements made are based on Alison’s personal experience and are anecdotal. For general information on hormone therapies such as tamoxifen and letrozole, here.
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Key takeaways in this episode
Recovery can feel harder than expected
For many people, the emotional and mental impact becomes more noticeable after treatment ends.
Cognitive and hormonal changes can overlap
Brain fog, anxiety and menopause symptoms can affect confidence and day to day life.
Support makes a difference
Being around people who understand can make this stage feel less isolating.
Getting back to normal isn’t straightforward
Work, routine and identity can feel very different once treatment is over.
Taking back control starts with small steps
Small changes in routine, movement or self care can help you feel more grounded.
Perspective can shift over time
Over time, you might reassess your priorities, make changes to how you live, or feel differently about what you’ve been through.
This podcast shares experiences and perspectives on life after cancer.
It is not medical advice and cannot replace support from your healthcare team.
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Some conversations may bring up strong feelings. If you need additional support,
consider reaching out to someone you trust, your GP, or your oncology team.
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You can also find free online workshops, expert sessions, peer groups and
our 6 week programme at life-aftercancer.co.uk.